• Intimate
• Pleasurable
• Autonomous
• Isolated
• Cut off
• Dissatisfied

How deep will intimacy go? That is the question here. These two have different styles of closeness, and each will try to make the other conform to his or her own mode. The preference of Week of Depth people for removing the veils of their inner selves slowly won’t fly with Week of the Seeker individuals, who will want to jump into the fray of their activities and create closeness that way. By the very nature of the relationship, and through its involvement in the issue of intimacy, these two often become locked in together, making quite a tight pair. Week of the Seeker people may find this a little uncomfortable. They are explorers from the word go, but should they set their sights on the undiscovered depths of the Week of Depth personality, they may find more than they bargained for there—and Week of Depth individuals are in any case rarely interested in being explored. They are, however, able to give themselves passionately in love, which may leave a Week of the Seeker person wanting to find out more. Initially passionate, love affairs in this combination may soon prove unsatisfying. Those born during the Week of Depth will want to please their Week of the Seeker lovers, but it may be months or years before they trust them enough to admit them to their private world. Generally wanting things to move faster, Week of the Seeker’s could feel rejected or unloved in this relationship, despite its sensual gratification. These two can have a highly physical friendship centering around sports, fitness, food or adventure. Their relationship is quite self-sufficient, having little need to become part of a social or family circle. The danger here, and also in the couple’s marriages, is that the relationship will cut itself off from normal social contact, becoming excessively isolated. During good times it may work fine, but in times of difficulty the presence of a support group will be sorely missed, particularly if children are involved. Co-workers and siblings in this matchup can function effectively together at work and at play, needing little if any input from a boss or parent. In fact, an authoritarian presence is quite inhibiting to this pair.

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